Parenting Coordinator in North Carolina
I help co-parents break free from conflict so they can regain a sense of calm, and give their children the stability they deserve.
Divorce is never easy, but high-conflict communication makes it feel impossible. I help parents move from frustration and tension to clarity and collaboration, so you can find peace and focus on what matters most—your children.
Parenting Coordination Services
Supporting North Carolina families in resolving conflict efficiently—saving time, reducing costs, and easing emotional strain.
Are you experiencing repeated co-parenting disputes, or escalating conflict?
If you’re struggling with repeated co-parenting disputes or ongoing tension that affects your child, the court may recommend appointing a Parenting Coordinator to help implement custody orders and reduce the need for repeated legal filings.
As a licensed therapist and Parenting Coordinator in NC, I help high-conflict families manage their differences more effectively by facilitating communication, clarifying court orders, and guiding parents through practical decisions with less stress and greater accountability.
Whether you're a parent, attorney, or court professional seeking structured support in a complex custody case, I provide parenting coordination services that are child-focused, court-compliant, and backed by more than 25 years of clinical experience.
What is a Parenting Coordinator?
In North Carolina, a Parenting Coordinator is appointed by the court under N.C. General Statutes §50-90 to §50-95 to help parents in high-conflict cases carry out the terms of a custody order. Unlike therapy or mediation, parenting coordination is a structured legal process with clearly defined responsibilities and boundaries.
Parenting Coordinators are authorized to:
Help parents interpret and follow their custody orders
Assist with day-to-day decision-making within the scope of the order
Reduce confusion and hostility by improving co-parent communication
Make limited decisions when permitted by the court
This process supports long-term family stability by reducing emotional strain, protecting the child’s best interests, and avoiding repeated courtroom appearances.
What Do My NC PC Services Look Like?
As a mental health-trained parenting coordinator in North Carolina, I bring a child-centered and skills-based perspective to my work. My process aligns with the best practices outlined by the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts (AFCC) and is designed to reduce family conflict while helping both parents meet their court-ordered obligations.
Services include:
Thorough intake and assessment, examining custody evaluations, protective orders, mental‑health records, and IPV history to confirm suitability, safety, compliance, and referral needs
Targeted education on child development, conflict dynamics, and communication strategies—helping high‑conflict parents learn tools that protect children’s well‑being
Case coordination, linking parents and children with resources, and liaising with attorneys, therapists, schools, and others
Employing mediation, negotiation, or arbitration methods—especially adapted to complex cases involving IPV and/or resist refuse dynamics
Structured decision‑making within the court‑defined scope—clarifying schedules, authorizing minor changes, and documenting agreements promptly
Virtual meetings with one or both parents
Written recommendations or reports to the court when required
I work quickly after appointment to establish structure and build momentum, minimizing emotional gridlock and helping parents move forward more constructively.
Which Counties Am I Approved To Work In?
I’m on the court’s list of approved Parenting Coordinators in the following North Carolina judicial districts:
If you’re an attorney or party in another district, I welcome the opportunity to be considered. I am open to being added to additional county rosters by request and can coordinate directly with your legal team to begin the process.
Is Parenting Coordination the Right Fit for You?
Parenting coordination may the right fit for you if:
You and your co-parent have a custody order in place but are struggling with implementation
Communication is consistently hostile or ineffective
Mediation has failed or is not appropriate due to ongoing conflict
Your child is being negatively impacted by persistent disagreements
As a court-appointed NC Parenting Coordinator, I help families move out of gridlock and into cooperative decision-making that benefits children and satisfies the court’s expectations.
How to Get Started
If you're ready to explore Parenting Coordination, or if you're an attorney seeking a qualified provider, the next step is a brief consultation (15 minutes) via Zoom to review the process, clarify scope, and answer any questions. My Rates and Retainer information can be found in the FAQs at the bottom of this page.
Once appointed by the court, I work directly with both parents in accordance with the terms of the order. My services are efficient, responsive, and grounded in best practices for high-conflict family systems.
Helping you resolve conflict. Quickly.
FAQs
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PC services are billed in 15 min increments @ $60/15 min ($240/hr) with fees allocated as stipulated in the appointment order • Retainer: $2,000 per parent to be replenished in $1,000 increments when the parent’s retainer balance falls below $500
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I’m a licensed therapist with over 25 years of experience helping families manage conflict. I meet all state requirements under N.C. Gen. Stat. §50-91, and a judge must approve my inclusion on the county’s Parenting Coordinator List. My services are guided by the AFCC standards for best practices in Parenting Coordination. I’ve completed 24 hours of training in Parenting Coordination through the AFCC, and have worked on well over a dozen cases in this specialized role.
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I meet with all Parenting Coordination clients via Zoom or videoconference.
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Parenting Coordination is not a healthcare service, and is not covered by health insurance.
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Find out which NC Counties I’m approved in by visiting my website. If you’re in an NC county other than the ones listed, I’m open to joining the list in your district. Attorneys are welcome to contact me to coordinate this process.
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Therapy focuses on emotional healing. Mediation is typically time-limited and neutral. Parenting coordination is a court-appointed role designed to manage ongoing disputes and enforce custody terms. It's structured, practical, and legally grounded.
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Co-parents involved in ongoing disputes, high-conflict co-parenting, or chronic disagreements about schedules, decision-making, or parenting plan interpretation are strong candidates. This role is especially helpful for families navigating NC state divorce laws and trying to reduce repeated litigation.
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By statute, a Parenting Coordinator can make decisions in the children’s best interests related to day-to-day parenting issues like exchanges, scheduling, and medical appointments. The specific areas of PC’s decision-making authority are determined by the appointment order. The PC’s decisions are legally binding unless overturned by the court.
Find clarity, relief, and a path forward